Former Big Brother Naija winner Josephina Otabor, known as Phyna, has confessed that her perspective on marriage has shifted dramatically as she approaches 30. In a candid video, the reality TV star admitted she now comprehends why many women remain unmarried in their early 30s, despite societal pressures.
Phyna Reflects on Past Judgments
Looking back, Phyna acknowledged that she once believed women who were single in their 30s must have had something wrong with them. She recalled questioning her older relatives about their marital status, thinking they had a problem. She stated: "I remember that time all those my aunties that were like in their early 30s that they are not married. I'd be like, 'Auntie, you no go marry? Auntie, you no marry?' Like then it was looking like the auntie get problem."
Reality Hits as She Nears 30
Now approaching her 30th birthday, Phyna said she sees life differently. She noted that turning 30 once felt far away, but now it is upon her. She added: "I'm just thinking out loud. I remember when I was 22, 23 then, you know, 29 was so far away, but now this is 29 and everything is just dawning on me." The reality star emphasized that adulthood has taught her lessons she never imagined, and she now understands that being unmarried at a certain age does not equate to failure.
Phyna's Final Admission
Concluding her thoughts, Phyna declared: "Guys. Guys. We sef don dey touch am o. Auntie no get problem. I swear. Our aunties, they didn't have problem. No single problem." Her honest reflection has resonated with many single Nigerians facing similar pressures.
Social Media Reactions
Legit.ng compiled reactions from social media users. @ChimedomC commented: "Truth is that there's a western agenda to reduce the world population by pushing the new-wave feministic idea that a woman is meant to first build her career before thinking of starting a family. But most women regret such decisions when approaching age 30-35. This is not new." @fingerlyjay noted: "Heyaa don’t deceive yourself o, so you don’t know that your aunties had problem and even you too get problem the same problem that’s why. I have to tell you because you can’t see it. You have to start first by telling yourself your real age."
Phyna Ready to End Beef with Davido
In related news, Legit.ng earlier reported that Phyna revealed she is ready to bury the hatchet with Afrobeats superstar Davido, nearly two years after their heated online disagreement. During a Twitch livestream, she spoke candidly about the lingering issue and her desire to move on. According to Phyna, time and maturity changed her perspective, and she believes a proper conversation could help both parties understand what went wrong.
